Reflections on Life and Wellbeing

A collection of reflections on anxiety, self-esteem, everyday life, and the things that shape our wellbeing.

Social Media and Anxiety: Who’s in Control?

As a counsellor working with young people, I see first hand how social media can shape self-esteem, self-worth, and overall mental well-being. While these platforms can offer connection and self-expression, they can also become spaces where anxiety, fear of judgment, and feelings of inadequacy take root. The Link between Social Media and Anxiety Many young […]

“Attachment Styles and You: A Brief Introduction”

Have you ever wondered why some people crave constant closeness while others cherish their independence? Understanding your attachment style might help you unlock deeper connections and boost your mental well-being through self-awareness. It’s an approach worth exploring to see if it resonates with you and your experiences Background to Attachment Styles: The concept of attachment […]

Your Emotional Bucket: Understanding and Managing Your Mental Wellbeing

We've all felt it – that feeling of being overwhelmed, like our emotions are about to spill over. Imagine your emotions as water filling up a bucket. Every day, we experience a range of emotions: joy, frustration, sadness, and stress. These experiences, along with the demands of work, relationships, and daily life, all contribute to […]

Embracing Autumn: A Time for Change and Self-Care

Autumn, with its crisp air and vibrant colours, is often seen as a time of transition and renewal. As the days get shorter and the nights draw in, it's the perfect opportunity to embrace change and prioritise self-care. For many, autumn marks a new beginning, whether it's starting a new school, college, or university, or […]

Supporting Young People in a Stressful World: Tips for Managing Anxiety

The world can feel like a scary place right now. With the steady stream of updates about national and global events, alongside the often curated highlights shared on social media platforms like TikTok and Instagram, it’s not surprising that young people might be feeling overwhelmed and anxious. Here are a few suggestions on how we […]

Navigating the Big Changes: Managing Anxiety from Junior School to University

The transition from junior school to secondary school, secondary school to college, or college to university is a significant milestone for young people. While these periods are often filled with excitement and anticipation, they can also be accompanied by feelings of anxiety. It is important to recognise that experiencing anxiety during these transitions is entirely […]